If you are deeply in love with your partner and loved in return, you have cause to celebrate. You have a good thing going for you. So if you want to try dirty talking to spice up your love relationship, you will find it easier than you think.
You want to use dirty talk to excite your partner, but are you worried about how it will work out? If you have love in your relationship, then you will have tolerance and acceptance as well. This is what makes dirty talking easier to introduce for you.
Love and intimacy are great partners for dirty talk:
The intimacy you develop with another person depends on the levels of communication and acceptance between the two of you.
Loving partners generally tend to confide more in each other because they trust each other. You probably know your partner much better than you think. So if you have been tempted to dirty talk, it may be because it is an idea whose time has come.
Furthering your relationship with dirty talk:
Dirty talk can indeed be a terrific way to deepen the elements of trust and honesty in a relationship.
You have to be open and adventurous to dirty talk. You learn to experiment and be spontaneous when you widen your horizons. None of these things can be anything but good for long term relationship building.
Getting it right when you dirty talk:
* If you have never tried dirty talking before, you have two options. You could either ask him gently when you get a chance, or surprise him one day when you really feel like dirty talking.
* If you do not like the idea of having a planned session or feel too shy to ask him, then find ways and means of sneaking dirty talking on to your lover.
* Reminiscing about a past session of love making with him that still turns you on, is a wonderful way to start. Telling him how and why you loved it will be great for his ego. He will be extremely flattered to know you still remember the details.
* Revisiting your past sensual moments together will also strengthen your bonds as a couple. This is an easy way to get him to join you while you talk.
* Involving your partner in dirty talking; meaning getting him not only to reply to your answers but also to ask questions of his own, will make it easier to get into the groove and send the excitement quotient soaring!
* Encourage him while love making using dirty talk. Inciting and inflaming him, while he is hard at it, with your words and sounds will make it intensely pleasurable for him.
* Once you have got it going, let your language flow. It is difficult to sound raunchy and sexy if you are stumbling over words. Use what ever language you are comfortable with.
* Whether it is plain vanilla or crude language, you succeed only when you make it sound sexy when you dirty talk. So let your voice purr sexily and let your body language accentuate your talk.
Remember, it is your love for him and your desire to keep that love strong that should be your guide in all matters. Sex is an important part of intimacy. Dirty talking is a way to taking that intimacy to new heights. Your love for him will just make it easier to handle.